Anonymous asked: You seem like such a strong girl. You handle yourself in such a great way. And your way of thinking in relationships are awesome. I wish I were as strong as you. But I over think and worry too much about myself and my relationship. Do you have any advice for me? :(

I try to handle myself in a strong manner. It’s not easy, because in the end, you’re all you’ve got. On the other hand, I’m like any ordinary girl who really wants to receive attention, certainty, and love. My problem is like yours: over thinking. I’m very analytical and tend to over think a problem and make a huge mess with my imagination in my head. You just have to be sure of YOURSELF, and everything will fall into place. Easier said than done, right? This is not an overnight solution. I’m finding more about my self-worth, and trust me, you’ll be happy with him when you’re happy with yourself. :) Don’t blame him for things, if he never gave you a reason to in the past. Unnecessary complaints can simply be overlooked and solved by yourself without stirring up drama in your relationship. :) Hope this helps. 

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